Invitations to listen deeply …

  1. Practice sitting or walking meditation as many times this week as you can, for at least 10 or 15 minutes at a time. You might remind yourself that learning how to be present to yourself is a beautiful foundation for being truly present for others. For support in your sitting practice, you might check out these 8 Essential Tips for Practice from Tara Brach.
  2. When you find yourself in conversation this week, invite yourself to deepen your listening. You might remind yourself before you sit down for dinner or call a friend: listening is an act of love.
  3. Enjoy this excerpt from Tara Brach’s book, True Refuge, in which she tells the story of a woman who transformed her very difficult relationship with her mother through deep listening.